Introducing: Memory lane – Will + Camille

Whenever a couple books me, I make it top priority to get to know them as much as I can. I feel that if I can get to know them well and they can get to know me well, it will result in much more relaxed images on their wedding day. And by the time I get around to shooting and blogging their wedding, I always feel like one blog post just isn’t enough to highlight these amazing people that I get to work with. As a result I recently came up with the idea of doing a new series called “memory lane” where, on their first anniversary, I have each couple choose a few of their favorite images from their wedding day, explain why they were their favorite, and then give some wedding tips or marriage advice to my current and future brides.

Up first (a day late because my WordPress scheduler was off…) is Will and Camille who got married last year at the Villa Barone in Mahopac, NY.

This is after my mom had a melt down because it was really happeneing….her first born was getting married!!!

This speaks for itself..I don’t think I’ve ever seen him this excited before our wedding! The fact that this was captured was amazing!

My dad promised not to cry! He swears he didn’t! This was a huge moment for me as a daddy’s girl:)

Words of wisdom:

-Don’t invite individuals out of obligation or because you feel bad….no one wins!
-Be patient and considerate regarding your future spouse’s feelings/desires while wedding planning!
-HIRE VENDORS!! Don’t have friends and family “promise” to get a friend of a friend do something for “free”…it may come at a higher cost:(. Trust real professionals to do what they do best!
-Surround yourselves with loving, supportive friends and family who will only speak positivity into your future!
-PLAN and GO ON AN EXCELLENT HONEYMOON…..you’ll need it!!!

Meet Patti + Ernesto

I’ll never forget the first time I met her. She came down the hallway of the student dorm with a stride mimicking what would happen if skipping and gliding had a love child, and I thought ‘Oh God, she’s one of THOSE…’. For all I know, she was probably singing something about a spoonful of sugar as well. A mutual friend introduced us and in her high pitched voice with a smile as wide as the east is from the west she said ‘So you are American?!?! I just LOVE Americans! It’s my dream to go to New York someday’. I looked down, rolled my eyes and thought ‘yup, she’s definitely one of THOSE’. Frighteningly optimistic, always bubbly, friends with everyone…definitely not the type of girl that I would ever become friends with. But as any good staff member of a bible school would do, I smiled back, shook her hand and told her New York is every bit as wonderful as in the movies. And then I moved on.

Somewhere along the way, Patti and I ended crossing paths often – cell group at church, Sunday morning music team, leadership team, among other things – and slowly we became good friends. That friendship grew as the years passed and together we embarked on the uncharted territory of our dreams, climbing over every obstacle that came in our way, and stood arm in arm as we figured out some of life’s deepest complexities…like the difference between baking soda and baking powder or WHAT THE HECK IS WRONG WITH DANISH MEN?!?!?. I listened to her weigh the pros and cons of working at one large company over another, always inspired by the strongest and most well known international businesswomen. And after a devastating heartbreak she would text me at midnight almost every night to see how I was doing and if my text back gave her any indication that I was having a rough night, she would immediately hop on her bike and come over to my apartment to cry with me. And then she would tell me that everything is going to be ok as she offered me some Ben & Jerry’s chocolate brownie ice cream which, if she wasn’t already promoted to BFF, definitely scored her some friend points in my book.

Patti is still that optimistic, bubbly, wide smiled girl that I met 7 years ago but since then she has become so, so much more than that to me. She is one of my dearest friends, someone who chooses to love and encourage me despite every flaw I have, and a woman that I have immense respect for. We’ve been through so many of life’s ups an down together. She cheered me on as I took a huge risk of moving back home to start my own business in a saturated market where I had no connections or contacts, and I got to witness her eyes completely light up as she saw Times Square for the first time, walked the streets of 5th avenue, and ate a Magnolias Bakery cheesecake.

When Patti called me last summer and told me she met a ‘really amazing guy’, my heart sunk. I was already defensive for her because I didn’t want her to have her heart broken, yet again, by some guy who was never good enough for her anyway. But as the weeks passed she kept talking about this Latin lover named Ernesto that she was really falling for, fast and hard. Much to my relief, I had a trip to Denmark scheduled for a couple weeks later and told her I’d like to meet him. It was just prior to my arrival that they became ‘official’ so, naturally, I had only one goal for that particular trip…not to get to know Ernesto, but to make it very clear to him that he better not break her heart, or ELSE. The three of us planned on meeting the first Sunday I was there but, for a reason I can’t remember, Patti was unable to make it. So there we sat, this guy named Ernesto and I, as I tried my best to be kind as I grilled him. He told me during our chat that he felt like he was at an interview and he told me just last week that meeting me that Sunday morning was harder than meeting Patti’s father for the first time. Secretly, I am very proud of this.;)

Over the last few months I’ve been able to get to know Ernesto a bit more and, while he may not be my BFF yet (he hasn’t brought me any Ben & Jerry’s…), I can say without a shadow of a doubt that Patti has found an incredible, incredible man. I am beyond excited to be there this summer to support them as they promise forever to each other and I am so, so honored to have such incredible friends as these two.:)

This week while I was in Denmark I got together with these lovebirds for an engagement shoot outside Patti’s [stunningly gorgeous] apartment in Copenhagen. These photos are a perfect representation of them as a couple and their relationship. As they walk through life hand in hand, always bearing a smile and offering a glass of wine to whoever visits them, the world better watch out because they are unstoppable and are destined to be world changers.

Love you two more than you know and I can’t wait for June to come…:)

Patricia Shuttleworth - April 19, 2012 - 4:07 pm

Gorgeous photos! Alicia is a master, and you Patrycja look resplendent! Ernesto is a lucky man! Lots of love.

Angelsea Urban - April 19, 2012 - 2:38 pm

So nice to see some of your beloved Denmark! Great job (as usual). :-)

Patrycja Wiselka - April 19, 2012 - 11:14 am

Sweetie,

You are amazing! A fantastic and awesome friend that I cannot live without! Like the pictures:-) Thank you!!!

The launch of Be-YOU-tiful portraits

When I blogged about the launch of the Be-YOU-tiful brand, I was both nervous and excited. I had no idea if any women would sign up, and certainly didn’t think I would receive as many emails as I did about it. The stories were nothing short of inspiring, encouraging, and some of them even heartbreaking. Hard working women who didn’t feel cherished, appreciated, or beautiful. Moms who desperately needed an afternoon to feel pampered, young women with very little self esteem, and ladies who have just been working their tails off lately and needed a day to relax. I was floored, but also very excited because these were exactly the type of women that I wanted to photograph.

We started bright and early Saturday morning, setting up hair and makeup at 6:30AM and getting ready for the first lovely lady to walk through the doors. The day flew by as we listened to my “girl power” iTunes playlist, watched these ladies transform from their makeovers, and ultimately, shine in front of the camera. They al brought their game face and totally blew me away with how confident and natural they were in front of the camera.

Meet the original ladies of my new Be-YOU-tiful brand.:)I’ll be doing more individual blog posts in the coming week but for now, here are the sneak peeks…

If you or any other women that you know need an girls afternoon out to get complete makeovers and photo shoots done, contact me ASAP. I will only be taking a limited number of sessions each month so as to give each woman the experience that she needs and deserves.:)

Theresa - April 20, 2012 - 12:31 pm

All so lovely. Beautiful! Awesome photography!

Robyn - April 12, 2012 - 9:59 pm

These photos are lovely. I really like your work. And I really, really like how open you are about your faith. Keep on shining your light. :)

Deb - April 12, 2012 - 7:15 pm

Gorgeous!

Heidi - April 12, 2012 - 8:21 am

<3 gorgeous as always!

Karen Stott - April 11, 2012 - 1:30 pm

LOVE this darlin! Gorgeous work!

Emilia Jane - April 11, 2012 - 11:04 am

Beautiful!!

Tiffany Farley - April 11, 2012 - 10:56 am

Gorgeous work Alicia!!!

Kim - April 11, 2012 - 10:51 am

Love these! Beautiful work, be-you-tiful ladies!

Ecuador, in pictures.

It’s been quite a few years since I have led a trip of this sort. I used to have a system that I followed to make sure all my t’s were crossed and i’s were dotted. But this trip was different. We had all new people joining, going to a place I had never been, and working with an organization that I’ve never worked with. My well thought-through systems just didn’t fit the mold of this trip so I found myself back at square one, trying to do my best to plan and lead this trip effectively. If I were to be honest with myself, I was pretty scared to death. I had visions of this one trip I lead a long time ago where a team member pulled me aside and told me I was the worst leader she had ever met and that she would spend her life making she she never led like me. Ouch. Going into this trip to Ecuador I felt like I had to lead perfectly, be this incredibly strong and hard working person, and always have the exact right words of inspiration to give each team member. Because, clearly, that’s all it takes to be a good leader, right?

Wrong.

Turns out I still had quite a few lessons to learn about leading. And the main one I learned on this trip is that by stepping back and empowering others to flourish in their own strengths a lot can get done. A lot. Working on things they were good at and loved, we were able to get almost everything done that Karissa had planned for the entire week within our first 2 days at the orphanage. Bedrooms were painted, murals were drawn, beds were built, holes were sealed, furniture was stained, and lots of cleaning was done. The team went above and beyond in so many ways and worked tirelessly to get the orphanage ready to open in a couple weeks. I was super proud of them and their hard work. I posted before I left that even if I hand picked a team, I couldn’t have picked better members…and after spending a week with them, I still stand behind that statement. I learned so much from them and loved getting to know them. And somewhere along the way, we had a *bit* of fun.;)

I know you came here to see pictures, so instead of rambling, I am going to give you what you came for…

When we arrived at the orphanage the bedrooms were painted in solid colors, but Karissa really wanted some cute drawing and murals. She asked if anyone in the team was good at art and a few of us stepped up. With Kristy, Kim and Nicole leading the way, we managed to paint 4 rooms with INCREDIBLE murals and wall paintings.
Michel and Adam hard at work sealing the windows and painting the ceilings.
The volunteer wall
The dream team.
Village life
We didn’t stay here but we had this little feeling that it wouldn’t exactly live up to the standards of a Hilton resort.
The missions house we stayed at had 5 siblings who will be the first ones at the orphanage. They have an incredible story of survival and overcoming…at the young ages of 2, 5, 6, 9 and 13. During our stay at the mission house, these kids stole our hearts.
Delcy, Tito, and jose out on the town with us for dinner and ice cream
In total, we brought 22 suitcases full on donated items. I had NO IDEA that much stuff would be donated, but it is enough to give the orphanage a good kick start when they open their door sin a couple days.
Tito is 6 years old but because of his history, he is only the size of a typical 3 year old. He was one of the sweetest kids I have ever met and if I could take him home with me, I would have.:)
I may be biased but I kinda think a kid looks good on him. Maria, clearly, doesn’t agree.
Loved this precious little girl. She, too, is much smaller than she should be. At 2 years old she is the size or a normal 9 month old. She is absolutely brilliant and amazed us all wit how much she understood.
Delcy, the little monkey
We spent a day out in a remote village handing out food and playing games with the kids.
Some brilliant person on your team (*cough* KRISTY) had the brilliant idea of playing Duck, Duck, Goose with the village kids. We, appropriately, renamed the game Duck, Duck, Lice after playing. Excuse me as I go scratch my head a bit more…
Passing out bags of food to the villagers.
Yes, that is a monkey drinking Gatorade.
Our team with the villagers.
My partner in crime doing his thing
A little hike throught he jungle to get to a waterfall.
The dream team

Paula - April 6, 2012 - 11:35 am

Simply amazing, beautiful, poignant, powerful … so many things. I remain truly overwhelmed at all you do and who you are … I am so envious of all who were on this trip and I cried just looking at the photos. (I know … what else is new? I always cry) Beautiful!

Rachel Girouard - April 5, 2012 - 2:36 pm

amazing!! looks like an incredible time =)

Abbey - April 4, 2012 - 11:13 pm

OMG Alicia! These pictures are amazing!!! Thank you for sharing.

Christopher Poisella - April 3, 2012 - 4:32 pm

AMAZING PHOTOS!!! Thanks for sharing. We can’t wait to see you and hear all about your trip.

Kristy - April 3, 2012 - 5:53 am

Gorgeous Alicia!!!! Love, love that place and our team and our time there!! ;)

Deedee Benyi - April 2, 2012 - 4:18 pm

Your heart continually amazes me.

Vanessa - April 2, 2012 - 2:36 pm

I’m so proud of all of you! What you all did is such an amazing thing and I’m happy that it all worked out well. Great job! I enjoyed looking at all the photos as usual!

Christine Drury - April 2, 2012 - 2:04 pm

Amazing pictures, our Daughte-In-Law Kim Drury was part of your amazing dream team, so inspired & proud of each & everyone of you!!

Nina - April 2, 2012 - 2:00 pm

I love these photos! We’ll have to figure out a way to share them all with the group. Yay team SIMPLY LOVE! And you were a great leader on this trip.

Kim - April 2, 2012 - 1:43 pm

Love, love, love this! That baby looks good on you too … just sayin! :)

Maria De Fazio - April 2, 2012 - 1:32 pm

This looks so amazing, Alicia!! And, obvi, the pictures are incredible. Goodness I miss doing these…

Sammy Tabak - April 2, 2012 - 1:25 pm

Awesome, Alicia! You should all be so proud of yourselves. You just did a serious Mitzvah! Great pictures too, by the way! ;)

Heidi - April 2, 2012 - 1:14 pm

Awesome photos! So inspiring Alicia! You are so amazing.

Simply Love 2012

I took a deep breath, hit “publish”, and immediately closed my laptop screen. I was scared to death to make the announcement, but excited all the same. I had no idea how people would respond. I was afraid that nobody would sign up and that this project I’ve been dreaming about for a long time would be a tremendous failure. But despite my fears, I hit that publish button.

And you came through.

Within 24 hours I had 4 applications in my inbox, and 7 information inquiries. Two weeks later our trip to Ecuador was filled up with 10 people who I, myself, could not have done a better job at hand-picking. I was blown away at the support and response. Not only from those who joined the team, but from all of you…blog readers I’ve never met, friends, family members. I sat in my parents living room last night attempting to organize all the donations that came in for us to bring to the orphanage in Ecuador. To say that I was overwhelmed is an understatement. Bags upon bags and boxes upon boxes. Formula, toys, books, art supplies, hygiene products, peanut butter, shoes, and clothes. And then some more clothes. Not just your run-of-the-mill, beat up, stained, goodwill-worthy clothes. The clothes that you donated to these orphans were from Baby gap, Ralph Lauren kids, Crewcuts (J.crew kids), Gymboree, The Children’s place, and Old Navy. Nice, nice stuff! All in brand new (with tags!) or like-new condition. And right then I realized that although there are 10 of us leaving shortly to go to Ecuador and serve these orphans for a week, you are coming right along side of us. Because of you, these kids will be the best dressed and best fed orphans in all South America (well, in my opinion!). For that, I am so very grateful.

I think it goes without saying that this will be our first of many trips. I’ve had so many people tell me that they will do all they can to make sure they are able to go with us next year. Not just because people want to travel to some awesome exotic place for a adventurous vacation (which this will be, in part), but because they have a love in their hearts that they want to share with the world. And because I’ve seen an overwhelming response, rooted in love, since I made the announcement about this trip 2 months ago, I’ve decided to call these trips “Simply Love” from now on. So, the Simply Love tour of 2012 is about to go down and I can’t wait to share pictures, videos and stories with you upon our return.

Thank you, again!

Ps – If you are the praying type, we would appreciate your prayers this week! Below is a list of all those who will be in Ecuador for this trip:

Alicia (me!)
Adam
Karissa
Kiarra
Cydney
Kristine
Kimberly
Cameron
Jaleesa
Nicole
Nina
Michel